You pay before you know
Room, food and invitations cost the same on a rainy night with a bad list.
The free steak dinner still fills rooms. The question is who's in them, and what it cost to find out.
Updated September 2026
It still works for some advisors.
Room, food and invitations cost the same on a rainy night with a bad list.
Lots of advisors know the regulars who hit every seminar in town and never book.
Consumer outlets warn people about free-meal seminars (Kiplinger's is typical), and regulators put out a joint report on "free lunch" seminars back in 2007. Some good prospects stay home because of it.
Smaller rooms, better people.
A ballgame or a wine tasting where clients bring a friend. The friend comes with an introduction.
Check your firm's gift limits.
Social Security, Medicare, getting an estate in order. At the library or a church. People who come to learn beat people who come to eat.
Co-host with a CPA or estate attorney. Split the cost. Agree up front who follows up with whom.
Cheap and easy to record. Easy to leave, too, so plan the follow-up.
Bring in your clients' adult kids. It's the best way to meet your clients' heirs.
A church, an alumni group, a veterans' post. Give them something besides a sales talk.
Invite them to record a family story instead of coming to dinner. We mail it to someone they love with your name on it.
Where VerbaPost fitsNo room, no food. $20 an invitation, 25 for $500 to start. When you call, you start with their story.
Use your own last seminar.
cost per first meeting = everything you spent ÷ first meetings
Put last year's seminar next to a 25-person mail test.
One client beats three meetings that go nowhere.
They raised their hand once. Send them something that isn't another dinner.
Where VerbaPost fitsOld seminar lists are a good place to start. Check with compliance first.
For some advisors. But you pay for the room and the food either way, and some people only come to eat. Figure your cost per first meeting before the next one.
Client events where clients bring a friend, a class with no meal, a lunch-and-learn with a CPA or attorney, webinars, family meetings, community groups, or a mailed invitation that offers something for their family.
Same number for both: everything you spent divided by first meetings booked.
Those people raised their hand once. Send them something that isn't another dinner. Check with compliance before you use the list.
Mail 25 people from your last seminar list something that isn't a dinner. Call the ones who answer. Compare the cost.
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